Both me and my boyfriend was married for 18 years. Weve been together two. I left my husband because he was on drugs and lying about it. His wife been in whitfeild several times, cheating on him contantly even on their wedding night , was on drugs and never got out of bed unless to party or cheat. We met a year after him leaving her and stayed together a year with her harrassment meanwhile she was living with a boyfriend. Well she shot herself in the head at her boyfriends house and died. My boyfriend thinks its his fault . Today crying he asked if i would go with him to her grave ugh . Should i?