I don't know why it didn't let me update on my original poll (caught husband cheating with his friends sister)... When I found saw the text message I room off for a drive in the middle of the night and parked at a empty parking lot. And I called her! We know each other and she knows he's married and I know that she's engaged with 4-5 kids! I told her thank you for ruining my marriage and now I would like to know what exactly happened. I told her as a woman she should atleast confess to what happened. She told me that it just happened a couple of weeks ago. She apologized to me and just listened to everything I had to say and answered every question I had. It literally took EVERYTHING In me to not loose my cool. I wanted SO bad to tell her to come and meet me so I could hurt her as bad as she has hurt me. I was filled with rage and still am but I know my husband shouldn't have allowed her to think she had a chance in the first place. I also wanted to know the truth I wanted to hear both sides of the story. I went home after that and slapped my husband in his face as hard as I could while he was asleep. I felt bad for sweeping up his eye and putting my hand on him but I'm sure he wasn't feeling bad while he was getting head. I confronted him and asked him to explain. He acted like he didn't know what was going on he didn't believe I had talked to her. And then he started crying he started apologizing telling me everything I want to hear. I've never seen him like that but I never imagine he'd do that to me either.... ...the petty side of me wants to stay with him, get in the best shape of my life, make him fall in love with me all over and when he least expects it throw the divorce papers in his face and make him watch his fine ass soon to be ex wife leave out of his life.. But then I also don't want to give up. I also want to believe he will learn to appreciate me. That he will learn from this experience and love me the way I am supposed to be loved and takes care of......