Ladies with stitches...

I am curious to know how long your stitches took to get done, i had emergency forceps and had episiotomy and tore up the sides also. My male doctor literally stitched me up in seconds and now i'm left with a vagina that can't heal anymore, there's bits of loose skin up the sides, there's a bit that looks like it's not fully attached to the rest of my vagina. I am so down about how it looks, i am 9 weeks pp. How long did your stitches take to be put in?😕