Years ago I was about 4 years into my 5 year span of TTC, with my ex husband ( thank you Lord that we didn't have children, since he is an EX now), I was always sad due to the BFNs every month... I used to watch How I Met Your Mother, an episode came on that as soon as I heard it it was as if God was speaking to me. Now I am married to an amazing man who treats me with so much love and we have been TTC since about April... Those words from that episode came to mind today, so I felt that I should share them with all my TTC ladies... " I know you are tired of waiting, and you may have to wait a little while more but she ( or he ) 's on her ( his) way, and she ( he ) ' s getting here as fast as she ( he) can" When that came to mind today, it hit me harder then those years ago. I know it is hard to try and try ( believe me i know ), but God's plan is not our plan... I hope this helps some. I know I will still get sad when I see that BFN, but I also know I need to stay positive. So I say to you all... Try to stay positive. I am praying for you all and one day each of us will have our Great Big SMILE day ?