Been TTC for 9 months

Mae
My husbun and I have been TTC since December 2015/January 2016, just about 9 months, and we've had ZERO luck! Not the faintest line, not a single day late, nothing. 
I've had a few ultrasounds just for diagnostic stuff in the past couple of years and I've been told after each one that I have lovely ovaries and a "perfect uterus". 
Obviously we've been off BC since we started trying, but never used ovulation tests, done timing, or any of that "super trying" stuff. Just not preventing and being active. AF came today, so I've decided this cycle to start doing bbt charting. 
I got some blood work done by my PCP to test my hormones and she said they look normal! What is going on!? 
I've heard a lot of stuff about the "soft cup method" and that it tends to work. Anyone experimented with that? We want a baby so badly. Been married 1.5 years and we're 24 + 25. Any advice?