Friendzone or not

Tiffany
So yesterday this dude I have been talking to said that he wanted to be just friends because of how far away we are of each other and I was kind of okay with that but later that night he was like "can I sext you" and I was already horny so of course I said yes then a lot of stuff was said but should I ask him if were just friends or friends with benefits or even closer to bf/gf...