Always a bit disappointed when you DH either can't perform or just passes out, and which isn't the worst, bit kindnl of swee,t passed out with our 2 daughters on bedtime duty while I'm on my prime time with ovulating. It's like every month right when the color changes on my test that night he's totally out if order. But the regular week of the "window" there is no problem. And I don't think it's his way to get out of it because I rarely let him know when my lh levels are high because he he still doesn't really understand how it works when you are purposely ttc. Like ibsid, bad timing.