Am I wrong for this?😕

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Yesterday, my boyfriend and I had car sex before I had to leave to take the bus back to school (upstate and I was in the city for the weekend). It was exactly a month since we last had sex, so the first round was REALLY good and intense. I've noticed that every chance we get to have sex, he can only go one round, like it won't go back up no matter how hard I try. I didn't even cum. When that happened yesterday, I got upset and didn't talk to him for about 30 minutes. When he asked me what was wrong, I told him that I'm disappointed in the fact that he can only go once now. He didn't know what else to say, besides the fact that it's out of his control. He asked me what I was thinking and I didn't know what to say. I got over it pretty quickly, but he was still mad, so the entire ride was quiet. He's still mad today. Was I wrong for telling him this? Did I imply something about his performance? He's great in bed, but I hate that we can only go one round. 
UPDATE: I talked to him about this and I realized that I was wrong for telling him in the way I did and for getting mad. I told him I was "disappointed", which made him feel like a disappointment and like he couldn't satisfy me. He was upset that we took this chance to have sex, which we usually don't have, and I got mad because he could only go one round, which made him feel that I didn't appreciate that chance. I apologized for making him feel that way and told him I just wanted to be honest, although the way I went about it was wrong. He's still upset, but said he's going to need time to get over it. He apologized for not being able to satisfy me the way I wanted to be. I feel like such a bitch.☹️

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That's not his fault, my SO can only go once unless there's a long gap. You can't blame him for something that isn't his fault and he'll probably feel inadequate now

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Not to be rude but getting mad at him for something he has no control over is just ridiculous imagine urself in his place u didn't do the wrong thing by telling him how u felt but getting mad it was just.....

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I think if there is something bothering you, you should alway tell your partner. Me and my boyfriend have a rule that we tell each other everything because then nothing is awkward. But you do need to remember that it is out of his control. I'm sure as a guy he wants to be the best for you especially in bed. But again you have got to remember he can't control it. He probably just feels really upset with himself that he can't give you everything that you want.

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You're allowed to be upset but how you handled it was wrong. You should have talked to him about how you felt. He can only get so much control over his orgasms, the same as you. How would you feel if he got mad at you for taking so long to orgasm? It isn't fair for you to be mad about this. You probably hurt his feelings and made him feel inadequate. Talking about this openly would have been better.

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He can't help it. Just like you can't lays help if you climax or not. Why don't you find a solution? Like finish yourself off when he does?

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It's not his fault, most guys can only go one round. But if you don't cut he needs to use his hands or mouth to get you there. That's his job!

Am I wrong for this?😕

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