LOOSING VIRGINITY YOUNG?!

Question

Do you think if a girl looses her virginity early she is a slut or a whore? I lost my virginity at 13 to a guy who was two years older than me. We had been dating for over a year and I was and still am so in love with him. But what's everyone's opinions on loosing your virginity young? Do you think it makes you a slut?

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Nothing makes a woman a slut because there's no such thing. It's just a social construct.

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I don't think having sex young makes you a slut I don't even think having sex often or with a lot ppl makes you a slut( although I don't think that's safe or smart for your emotional well being) I think that understanding that while your body is ready when you're young, your mind isn't necessarily. And that's why it's important to wait until you're older, because we should understand that our bodies are awesome and who we are is awesome before we let another person see us so vulnerable bc we should try to be at a place that their opinion can't out rank our own opinion of ourselves (which should be positive bc ugly is a made up idea). When I think of the word slut I usually think of a selfish person who is trying to ruin things and hurt ppl with their sexuality, but then I still think that those people probably just need a lot of love and forgiveness bc they're obviously not getting all of the love and attention they need. So really there's no such thing as a slut, it's just an ignorant word, we use when we don't see people as people.

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It's very young to lose it at 13 when you could hold on to your childhood for a little longer. It's not ideal, imo, but it doesn't make you a slut. Unless you've had sex with many guys after that then yes, but age is pretty irrelevant on that.

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No one should be ashamed of their sexual history. It doesn't matter. Society has set up rules to shame people for doing something natural. You can't change what has happened, so don't waste time regretting it. Keep doing you babe.

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I don't think it makes a girl a slut but I do think it's very young. And I also agree with Claire

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What Claire said. No such thing.

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