Edit: okay so if you think I'm robbing pregnant women of their voices, I'm not, no one can do that. They can say what they please but that does not make me want to hear them complain ALL the time. Yes I know preganancy can suck, I had hemoraging very severely, I was constipated, my back hurt all the time due to the fact that I have a back disease, and yes I threw up almost daily everyday I was pregnant, so please don't tell me pregnancy can "suck", I know I've been threw half of it. I also know that labor is god awful, I went into pre-term labor that wasn't stopped due to my baby's condition. But just because I know all of these things doesn't mean I'm going to be sensitive toward pregnant women when they say those thing or are just complaining about irrelevant things. So trust me, I know both sides, I didn't just miscarry, my baby lived for 3 minutes outside of the womb, I cremated my daughter, so I know loss, and I also know what the pregnancy pains feel like. Just because you think I'm "robbing" pregnant women of their voices doesn't mean you can try and "rob" me of mine. Okay thank you, second rant over.