SMOKING AND DRINKING WHILST PREGNANT!!!

So it's my 26th birthday today and we're going through fertility checks, after 2 years .. Nothing .. We decided to see if anything is wrong. Anyway my uncle passed away and it was his funeral today and one of my cousins is "accidentally" pregnant at 17 (14 weeks), so we were stood there waiting for the hearse to arrive and I spot a cigarette in her hand, surely enough she was smoking, I was disgusted! After the service we were stood outside and she was smoking again, I heard lots of people comment about it. I could feel myself getting more and more infuriated! TWO YEARS we have wanted a baby for and its not fair that this person can smoke knowing full well what harm its doing to that baby!!! We go to the wake and everyone is at the bar getting drinks etc.. I have a soft drink because I was driving, she turns up and says "I can have one" and orders an alcoholic drink for herself, just asks for a straw in the bottles and walks around drinking it 😡😡😡😡 if it's illegal to smoke in cars with children, it should be illegal to drink and smoke whilst pregnant! I feel so sad.