The inevitable bloat and unable to find a dress

So, my cousin's wedding is this upcoming weekend and I swear every dress I own shows how bloated I am!  I went shopping today and could find nothing where I don't look and feel like a blimp!  I know it's too early for me to show (9 + 3) today, but I normally have a flat tummy and just know everyone is going to see this pudge!  I've already been harassed enough about how I should have children by my family and now I feel like I'm going to give them something to talk about!  Gahh!