I have been a stay at home mom for a little over a year. I have a son who is a year and couple weeks old. Haven't worked since him. Since having the baby none of my friends come around or even try. I have tried a whole hell of a lot. My birthday was on sept 7th and not ONE of my friends told me happy birthday. And half of them live in the same town. My dad and step mom threw me a surprise party (which was awesome! !) But no one my age was there. Last April, on my friends birthday I made her a 2 layer cake (out of pocket) and we have been friends for 17 years (in November) and she never called me texted me or anything!!! she recently told me happy birthday yesterday because I told her you haven't told me.. anyway another one of my "friends" never came to see me because he was busy helping babysit a DOG there were 3 other people there. Couldn't even come see me for a few minutes even though I live like 5 minutes away, even after I got him a JOB as an electrician with no prior experience all he had to do was show up!!! 7 days a week and working less than 35 hours and not 5 minutes for me. Oh and they all pass my road to go to work!!! Im only 2 houses down from the main street in town!! You turn right and im literally RIGHT THERE, you dont even get the chance to get up to 30 mph in your car!!!!. Im so sick of trying to stay friends with people who cant even AT LEAST text me.. with sever anxiety and depression being ignored does not help me at all. I find my self hating life and not enjoying being a mom. It feels like a chore and not something I chose to do. Im not asking them to come visit me every week for hours at a time but fuck it was my birthday. I feel left out and under appreciated.