F$*k this shit!
Warning: Huge vent session.
My SO can be SUCH an asshole. So I understand he has been working his butt off, and he's picking up a second job at his dad's company, but he's just transitioning, so it won't always be 2 jobs. And he always says how he's wants to make enough to cover all of our bills and allow me to stay home and work on building my clientele at the salon. So I understand he has been stressed.BUT! And I hate to use this excuse, but I am 13 weeks pregnant. I still work full time at one job, plus working part time at the salon. I also take care of ALL of the housework. Laundry, trash, recycling, dishes, pets, etc etc. I was late to work today from cleaning up. Before I went to work today I asked him to please clean the litterbox because I was told not to. Well, I come home, there's more dishes in the sink, mud tracks on the floor, beer bottles all over the counter from having friends over and, you guessed it, a dirty cat box. I'm just so exhausted and I've been sick all week. I understand I'm hormonal, but there needs to be some kind of balance right?
He blows up on me saying I don't care about what he's been doing for me, even though he has no idea I've been short on money for my bills, so last time he went grocery shopping, he flipped out saying he had to buy it. We still had plenty of food. And he says "you haven't been physically affectionate to me at all" meaning sex. Which I have had absolutely no drive or energy to do so.
Ok rant over. Thanks for reading, it's late and nobody is up to talk to me.
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