I've been waiting since the day I found out for this whole pregnancy thing to feel real. I thought after the 1st ultrasound (9 weeks) it would feel real. Then it was after I 1st heard the heartbeat, then it was after the end ultrasound and we knew what we were having. All of these concrete and sound things that, yes, I am pregnant and going to have a baby and yet it still does not feel real. They say a woman feels like a mom when she finds out she's pregnant where as a man doesn't feel like a dad until he holds the baby. I don't really feel anything. I'm excited and I'm looking forward to meeting our baby... but I feel kinda blasé about it right now... am I alone???