Things have been really frustrating since my baby has been here. Not because of the baby but because my bf has not been very helpful with him. I have him 24/7 and I am the ONLY one who wakes up with him at night. I get that he works or whatever but it would be great to have a break sometimes even if it's 30 min. The issue has come in where now my son hasn't been on his same sleeping schedule for 2 days now and it's like he has to be on me or in my arms to stay asleep. My bf calls it spoiling him but I don't believe you can spoil a month old baby. When he whines or cries at night he complains but not ONE TIME does he get up to help! When I fall asleep with him on me after feeding she complains that I'm spoiling him instead of understanding that I'm exhausted and am not purposely falling asleep with him... It's so frustrating because all he does is criticize and complain about my methods of handling my child but has not 1 TIME tried to help me with him. I'm so tired of it like frfr