Anal? 🙈

Me and my SO have decided we want to try anal. Has anyone here tried it? How was it? I think I am going to buy a starter kit, my man is pretty gifted 😌. Did you use an enema before? My worst fear is him pulling his dick out and there's stuff on it. I've experimented a little with anal insertion and it is quite tight lol. Any tips? I want it to feel good for both of us 🤗