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So after this endless cycle of my husband using sex as a tool to teach lessons and control, I think I'm ready to so celibate for a while. For several different reason.

1. I'm tired of initiating and being turned down

2. I'm tired of my emotions being played with at his convenience

3. I don't deserve to be treated this way

In sure it won't be too hard to go from once a week 4- min sex to no sex at all.

I've posted about this before and this was the first advice many of you gave me. You said just say no every time he asked. The problem was, I wanted him so bad (not even just he sex but affection period) that as soon as the opportunity came, even if it was only because he was horny that day, I wanted to have him because I had no idea when the next time might be.

Well I think that time is over. I'll go sexless for as long as I have to until something changes.

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