getting depressed.

So I'm 18 weeks. 
My husband told me to quit my job because they treated me wrongly and I was pregnant so didn't need that stress. We were going on vacation a months after I quit so I said I'll wait til after we come back to look for a job. I found a part time job and start tomorrow. 
My husband thinks I'm lazy when I'm tired or things I'm being dramatic when I have painful headaches because of the pregnancy. He hasn't been understanding at all :(
Well a month ago my nephew passed away and I took it hard but all he could say was get over it, that I need to hold my feelings in, and that if I had a miscarriage because what I was going through he'd be mad. Blah. 
My sister that lost the baby decided to throw me a gender reveal tomorrow. And I offered to help and she just flipped out on me. Saying I should be great full she's doing this for me because her son died so she didn't need to do this for me. It broke my heart because I did everything for her. I brought her food, picked up my nephews some days, planned my nephews funeral, and made a go fund me page for her. 
I know it's a hard time but I just feel like all my family even husband doesn't care that I'm pregnant and I thought this was supposed to be a happy time. I just feel so down. I feel like I have no one who's really there for me. Even before my nephew passed this is how I've been treated 😒 & im tired of my husband saying it's my hormones because I've always felt the way I feel and was always honest. I guess I thought once I was pregnant he would be sweet and want to appreciate me more.