My husband and I started trying in November 2013 after having mirena for 5 years. I had a chemical pregnancy that month and also in December. I was so emotional and stressed out! I finally tried to relax a bit around Feb-March. We wanted to skip March because I didn't want a December baby. Of course though, the second you stop trying, it happens! It was a bit of a surprise but I knew it was a possibility. I am due December 24th of all days! We are so excited though, this is our first one!