In-laws 😒

I live with my in laws (boyfriends grandparents) and I can't tell you how much I can't stand being there. I have no problem with his grandpa it's just his grandma. And his aunt. Who is living there. We're working on getting a home built but it may take 3 to 4 months till its done. (We moved in May 26) anyway.... It's  very depressing living there!! Especially his aunt who Is very selfish and VERY greedy!! Doesn't help her parents for nothing not even help with paying a bill.. Or buy groceries or laundry detergent!!!! She didn't not work till recently!! And doesn't pay a dime!! But acts likes she does! She went inside our bedroom and turned off the ceiling fan cause it was wasting electricity. She hides her pots, pans, because she doesn't want them to get scratched... Grandma gets mad cause we don't drink the milk as quickly. I mean the list goes on.... I go see my parents every once I. A while and his grandma talks to my baby and just says things "like why were you over there" "you don't remember us" "why are you going to visit your parents" just rude comments. It's making me depressed and my boyfriend thinks it's just me being a Whiney butt just so we can't leave. I'm so mad that my baby doesn't see my parents as much. And living here listening to his grandma talking to him makes me mad. Ugh I don't know what to do