No cake?

Did anyone not get a baby shower cake? I joked about a baby shower cake and my grandma the host said don't be selfish I'm throwing you a party I shouldn't have to buy you a cake too plus you really don't need it you should really slow down on all the sweets... (I don't eat a lot but I'm heavy for some reason and pregnancy made me gain weight obviously) I wasn't even aloud to invite friends 😭...