I am so annoyed by the current doctor I have. I just moved back to California after living in Washington and I LOVED my midwife there. I felt like I was actually being cared for. I haven't even actually met my new doctor and I had my first appointment at 16 weeks here. I asked if I could see a midwife instead of a doctor and they just told me no. They  keep saying they will call me to set up appointments and they haven't called me once, I have to call them( i don't mind it's just annoying that they say they will call to set it up and don't) and everytime we ask if it's a boy or a girl they never give us an answer. I just had the 20 week scan and all they said was it an 80% chance it's a girl and then the nurse went on to tell me how she thought she was having a girl and had a boy instead. They are frustrating me so much!!! Ugh