For nurses/OBGYN if possible! Is it safe to check ourself for dilation ?

Kehaulani • Mommy of the princess - Leila (2.5 yo) and expecting our second princess Oct. 1st. 💕
I've seen so many posts of women checking themselves (and not knowing what to look for) and asking for advice. I read you can cause pre term labor, accidently rupture your bag and cause infection! It's not even necessary unless medically needed by professionals to be checked. I commented on a women's post saying it's not recommended and she got offended, was I wrong for letting her know the risks? She was a FTM. And went on to say pensises go up there and SO fingers... I'm just confused, it's so dangerous right? Am I wrong?

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