When your in a relationship and you both need to be the one with all the control but no one is willing to let the other wear the pants for say. How to you come to a common grounds. It's so hard for me to just give alot of control up in my past relationship I wore the pants and I don't wanna take them off. I also and having a hard time with trust in my curent relationship and find my self become very jealous and insacure witch are all things I never felt in my past relationship. But also in my past relationship I found my self always lookin for a way out now I find my self lookin for a way to make this one work but some days is hard. If anyone knows a way to deal with any of these feelings please help me one???

Ps. sorry it was long or if it's confusing