I just want it to be me and my SO.... No grandparents or other family unless I request them. I've had a few friends say how traumatizing it was right after they had the baby and the family comes rushing in and starts passing the baby around.... And they haven't even gotten over the shade of shock from actually having the baby. I don't want anyone in until I'm completely ready and comfortable. I want the baby and me to be all cleaned up and ready for everyone. Some people may say it's selfish.... And even if it is it's about me and my baby and what's best for us at the moment. I'm thinking I'm gonna have everyone wait an hour or so before coming in so I can rest. Has anyone else thought of what they're gonna do?