I think we are on different pages...

My boyfriend is 27 I'm 21.

I just lost my V to him a month ago after dating 5 months yet I've known him almost 4 years.

We've been using condoms and he said right from the start that he wasn't a fan of them because he loses some feeling because of the condom.

We talked about birth control. He said he didn't think the pills were the best because of the hormones and just casually said maybe I should look into non hormonal birth control.

So I'm getting an iud put in in 3 weeks.

Should we wait to have sex until after I get the iud? We aren't purchasing anymore condoms. Thoughts