Okay, I'm 21 years old, and have been around the block sexually, but now I am married to the man of my dreams. And sex with him of literally baffling. He has a boner, 80% of the day, I physically can't handle having sex as offen as he would like, so we don't. But here's my question, we have sex regularly, well when he isn't deployed. But I don't know if he is getting off, we don't use condoms, we did when we first started dating, because you know safety first, but we're married now, having a kid wouldn't hurt us, but also, I had cancer so I may not be able to have kids, so we're not stressing it anymore. But I'm just not sure if he's getting off, or finishing inside me.  How can I tell? Does something come out if he cums in? (Sorry, couldn't help myself.) Like I said boner all day, so it doesn't go soft when we get done, but it didn't when we would use condoms and I would see the jizz. I don't know, & I just kind of want to know before he gets home from this deployment, because if he's not been getting off I feel horrible. He does his job wonderfully. I'm looking for any insite I can get. Thanks a bunch, ladies. ❤️