Am i overreacting?

I work, my man works, and we have a 3yr old, currently pregnant with number2. He is literally gone from 7 am til 8:30-10 at night. He's a farmer, I get it. But I am so annoyed that he comes home to shower and sleep. We never see each other, we barely talk. I've tried everything I can think of to help

We are to the point we fight all the time because im just so frustrated. I miss him so much and its like it barely bothers him. I get little to no appreciation for what I do at home, on top of taking care of our toddler and sometimes working over 40 hours a week! I'm to a breaking point, I feel alone in every single way and idk what to do anymore...