This is my first time having a pregnancy without complications. I miscarried 3 yrs ago. Im really worried about any little pain i feel and told by my dr its normal to hurt in early pregnancy. Even though im just 9 weeks time seems to be flying past fast and i know ill be getting ready for labor in what seems like a blink of an eye. Im very over whelmed already and would like some advice. Im terrified to go into labor and have something go wrong. And having being judged because im lesbian. How did other people get through this whole thing?? What are some good help sites that i can go to for assistace with different things maybe help with buying things like coupons. I thought we where ready to have a kid now im just very overwhelmed would like any advice possible.