how often do you and your man have sex?

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Hey ladies! I'm having some troubles with my sex life. Can you all tell me how often you all have sex with your man? Also, how often could you go WITHOUT sex??? 
My man and I have been together for 8 years and it's always been a huge issue. I don't have a huge sex drive and he does...
Please help!!!!

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Been together two years and have sex probably 5-7 times a week

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Thanks for all the responses. I'm just having a huge problem with this right now and it's hurting us.... Shelby, how do you get yourself in the mood? My man isn't big into foreplay. I've told him that I need more and he has been trying but it's like my mind automatically goes to, "I don't want to have sex"... I don't know why!!!! I'm so frustrated!!!!

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My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 8 years. I'm in the same boat as you, I have a low sex drive and he has a really high one. We have sex 3-5 times a week. Although there are many times I'm not in the mood at first, I get in the mood through foreplay. I feel sex is really important in relationships, to have the physical sense of being wanted and brings you closer.

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Once a week

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My SO and I have been dating for about a year and we have sex maybe once a week if that. However, we only see each other once a week, maybe twice if we're lucky. I'm the same way - my sex drive is not very high, but neither is my SO's. I guess we kinda just do it whenever the time is right, which may be less or more often at times.

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Been together a little over a year and have sex on average at least 3 times a week. Longest I could (/would want to go without) is only a few days tbh but I have a high sex drive.

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My relationship is the same way!!!! I don't really have a huge sex drive and he could do it every night (which I've tried, but with roommates, I don't get a chance to finish because I need a vibrator so it's not that fun). Anyways, I could go a long time without sex in all honesty. I don't think there is an average, it's based on each person and relationship.

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About 3 times a week. But with kids, work, school... Sometimes we wish we could do it more often. Sometimes when im feeling too tired for sex he gets me in the mood with massages and kisses on my body or little things like that.

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3-4 days a week on a regular week, if I'm on my  fertile week and thus extra horny, usually 5-7 days during that time.

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3-4 days out of the week. We both have matching sex drives

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