Today at my doctors appointment my doctor expressed a concern that I'm developing preeclampsia being I have retained 10 pounds of fluid in two weeks, my BP was 148/86 and I've been feeling SO sick lately. She also advised that I stop working due to the edema in my hands and feet. I'm 8.5 months pregnant so it's not as if I'm super early on. Well my husband seems to think he can explain away everything, my BP is high because I'm "stressed out with my family" (I'm not). It's not fluid retention I mean I "have been eating a lot more than usual" (I usually feel so sick I can only eat dinner and that's even forced sooo yeah) and I'm nauseas because well I "was in the beginning so why wouldn't I be at the end?" Then when I say that she wants me to leave work his response wasn't "what ever is best for you and our baby" NO! It was "really?! You've already cut back your hours!" His biggest issue with this is if I have to be induced he will have to cancel his training 6 hours from home and his bosses will be upset... call me crazy but I would think a normal person would be the most concerned about the health of their child. Not the happiness of their boss...  then he keeps saying "just wait until next Saturday when im home from training" SERIOUSLY?! My daughters health comes first! I don't give a gnats fart in space what his bosses want and if he can't accept that and feel the same way then he can miss her birth... WHY CANT MY HUSBAND BE SUPPORTIVE AND UNDERSTANDING?!