I'm hurt...

Sasha
So I'm 21 and I got married. My husband never wants to have sex with me at all. I'm lucky to get it once a month....it's been over a month now since we had sex...
Tonight he said he wanted to get drunk and have sex with me. Idk if I'm just over reacting but my mind is basically telling me he has to be drunk to have sex with me. I'm just feeling hurt...I feel unwanted.😕😔