ANYONE ELSE DO THIS!?!?

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So I'm a receptionist at a massage spa. Tuesday night I was working and this SUPER hot dude came in for a massage. We talked the entire time he was doing his paperwork and waiting the the therapist. We talked after for a little while too.

Well... I tried finding him on Facebook to no avail. I used a text free number and texted his cell phone (which I got off his paperwork) and pretended to be an automated message asking to partake in a surgery about his massage... My coworker encouraged this as well as finding him on snapchat. (Which I did).

This morning he added me back and said he was glad I added him and he didn't think I was being creepy. Today while scrolling through Facebook, he popped up in my people you may know. So of course I creeped...

The massage therapist he had Tuesday was telling me why him and his now ex had separated (the story hurt my heart). I feel like a total creep because I know more about his life then he's told me himself and because of the way I started talking to him...

Does anyone else do stuff like this?

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I don't think you should be stealing a clients number and texting him pretending to be a survey for your job.. if I had an employee doing the same they'd be getting in trouble. Clients should have privacy. Creeping on fb is one thing but I think you've gone too far

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I'm sorry but I would be super mad if someone used my information for private use. I find it unethical.

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Are you kidding me? You used his personal information from a confidential file? Consider yourself incredibly lucky he didn't report you. Creep

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Why post here? Your responses clearly show you think you were within your right....but yes you were in the wrong, despite your understanding that.

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You violated HIPPA Law so unprofessional you can get in serious trouble for that, you could of just talk to him and asked him not steal his information ..it's called consent 
smh 
Be careful !

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Yeah, I'm basically a certified detective. But only before I get to know them, once we are in a relationship I try not to be so creepy! Lol

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You are super creepy.... You lucky he didn't report you...

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I think you're quite creepy. If I was that man I'd have complained to your work and possibly got a restraining order.

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I don't think you're weird or creepy... You can usually tell if someone is into you or not! And obviously you felt as if there was a mutual attraction between the two of you! And I have definitely been in a situation some at work where I wasn't able to exchange# cause I was busy, or sometimes the girl waits for the guy to ask or offer his #... but the guy may be waiting for the girl to offer her # so by the end both are nervous so niether brings it up or like I said he may have felt like it was the wrong place to ask your #... And I'm pretty sure if the dude thought of u as creepy he wouldn't have stopped to talk again after his massage nor accepted your request on Snapchat!!!! So all these girls on here talking shit are ridiculous, rude, and need to take more risks!!! I mean they act like you stole his hospital records or his psychiatrists notes😂😂 Ladies if you are feeling a guy and u think he's feeling u back jump on it if he's too shy, but don't just let someone that makes u smile pass u by.... And yeah it may have been slightly wrong for you to use his # but like you said he didn't even know it was u... And what ppl don't know can't hurt them 😉 I give u ups for putting yourself out there on a limb and going for what u want... All women need confidence like that!!

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I think you took advantage of it. If he wanted to talk to you he could have given you his number.

ANYONE ELSE DO THIS!?!?

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