Need some advice

Not sure if this will be in the right category but oh well I guess just I need some input so my husband and I have known each other since we were 14 yrs old basically we free up together then we got together and got married May 7th will be 3 yrs and it just seems like nothing works nothing I do or try helps he just is still the same I wanna leave but I can't I do love him and we have 2 kids together and one on the way it's just I'm always putting in 100 percent into this marriage when he's not putting in any at all and all he cares about is getting high with his friends he doesn't try too spend time with us and he doesn't try too just make time for him and I he complains how tired he is from work but yet he can spend all this time with his friends and when I need help with something he won't ever do it but he helps everyone else and I've tried talking too him I've tried everything I could and I know marriage counseling wouldn't work because he done told me there ain't nothing too be fixed that I'm just being a controlling bitch like his mom did too him that he's not a little kid anymore and Idk I honestly just don't know how much I can take anymore and I just need some advice