What's everyone's problem?

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I've seen so many girls having an issue with their SO watching porn. I watch porn and it doesn't bother me that my SO watches porn! I really js want to know why everyone has a problem with it.

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My SO Used to watch porn before we met and I did as well. When we started dating I politely asked him if he did still and if he did, could he stop and he agreed. He hasn't watched it since, nor have I. I am NOWHERE close to being "insecure" lol. I'm very confident in myself but I just feel like porn can ruin relationships if it gets out of hand. I personally don't want him jacking off to some other woman, it makes me feel uncomfortable. It works for us and that's all that maters.

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People are probably a little insecure. They feel like "oh, if they're watching porn then that means I'm not satisfying them well enough." Also, many people are taught that porn is shameful and masturbating is shameful. So those three things together really aren't a winning combination...

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Right! I like to sometimes check out what my bf watches and show him what I watch. 🤗 I think it opens up the floor to experimentation in the bedroom! 👍😉

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My husband and I don't watch porn,its pointless to us. Nothing to do with insecurity. Not all women who don't want to watch porn are insecure. To us (my husband and I) its just like why watch some random strangers have sex when we can explore eachother and do our own thing.Also I have watched documentaries about porn and how many women are mistreated,so why would I watch some woman getting gang banged or screwed by random  people.Sure perhaps not all women are mistreated,but it just seems pointless to me. Theres nothing wrong or insecure with having different "tastes" in what gets you off. To each their own anyway. Thats my opinion.

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I guess I never really liked it because I think the stuff going on in it is just nasty. Him hacking off to another girl just bugs me. However i never made him stop watching it. We are 3 hours away from each other right now and i figure that I would rather him be watching that then cheating. Which I don't think he would do anyway but ya. Plus he says anymore it takes him like 3-4 hours if he is using porn. He said it's just not me so it's not doing anything for him anymore. Nothing made me happier then to hear that lol

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There are a lot of people that think watching porn is a form of cheating, I don't get it but it has everything to do with personal sets of values and a different set of morals from what I gather. Even worse in my opinion are the ones who don't want their SO to masterbate at all which I find ridiculous, I had a man I was seeing try and tell me I couldn't masterbate it we got together and I swiftly ditched him, it's my vagina and i'll play with it if I want to dammit.

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Quite honestly, I think it's dumb. My SO and I both watch it. Neither of us are insecure- we even had a convo about how when we watch it we just think of us in the positions, if that makes sense? I get people think "well maybe he thinks I'm not satisfying him enough!!!!!!!1!!!" But I think if you feel like that, then talk to him. I also think it's dumb because when you're not together what do you expect him to do ??? Just sit there and think of you while he masturbates? That's unrealistic.

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Honestly my problem comes from the fact I could tell he wasn't as interested in me and he was hiding it from me and not telling me. Then when I found it he tried to lie about it but when he admitted to it I restarted thinking about how he hadn't wanted sex anywhere near as much over the past month and it made me feel terrible

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Yeah i only notice it's a problem with women that are insecure or have been taught that porn and mastutbating is shameful. I don't have a problem with it and it has never been an issue in my marriage

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I don't care of he watches it to me porn is whatever, it's not a threat. It doesnt turn me on maybe because I'm indifferent to it. I think insecure woman have an issue with it. I see him watching porn no different than me catching up on my Tyler Perry shows lol, on the real!

What's everyone's problem?

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