husband trying to get me pregnant?

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My husband tells me he isn't ready for another kid yet because of our financial situation. We only make about $700 a month. I'm not on birth control and we don't use condoms. I want a baby now but I know that we shouldn't. However he comes in me every time we do it. I've talked to him about it and he says he will stop yet he keeps doing it. I don't know what to do. I'm just scared I'll get pregnant and he will get upset. How should I go about this?

Update ** I'm not going to be mean towards him I'm a very passive person and don't want to be rude unless I have to be. I'm asking how I should bring it up to him and what exactly to say to him to make sure he doesn't do it again.

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I don't understand why you won't just tell him to STOP. If I was in your shoes, we wouldn't be having sex until he could either use condoms or atleast pull out. You're not helpless, get on birth control and take control of this.

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When you're having sex tell him to pull out. 
If he doesn't stop then tell him no sex until he learns to control himself. What he's doing is irresponsible and he needs to be told that

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Umm you say no, stop???

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I don't know how you do it that wouldn't even cover my basic bills not including rent. You need to get on BC and tell him if you guys work on boosting your income maybe then you'll be willing to ttc :)

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I spent over $200 on plan B pills this month lol 
That's an option, I would seriously get in something better safe than sorry. He needs to control himself if he can't then you wil lagevto be the mature one and do the adult thing. Get on birth control.  Know my husband well enough to know when he's coming and I move the fk out of the way pulling him out.

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You can use contraceptive methods outside of birth control.

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Contraception or no in time.

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I would just talk to him over dinner one night and say honey do you really want more kids but are scared of the financial issue..because at the rate we are going its bound to happen..and listen to him ( body and verbally) it sounds to me he wants one and if it happens he'll be excited but that financial problems are in his way and he will know to step up more and make more if he has to.

You're his wife and that's going to be his child..no man will be upset maybe nervous for a few weeks but that's all

husband trying to get me pregnant?

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