Blowjobs

Paige • Paige 💁🏼
Hi, ladies!
I was wondering if you guys had any suggestions about blowjobs and anal play. 
My boyfriend wants both and has for quite some time. We've been together two years and I can probably count on one hand the amount of times I've given him bj. I have super awful confidence when it comes to it. 
Anal play... *shiver* 
My boyfriend has confided in me eons ago that he likes butt play, I'm super open minded so I don't mind that he's into it. But now, he wants to do engage in anal play with my behind. I'm not quite sure if I'm ready to break that buhymen, but I've been feeling bad about our horrid sex life and want to make him feel great. 
So with that, do you guys have any suggestions as to how to relax and just let it happen??