my shower is gonna be a surprise so i know nothing other than i actually am gonna have one.  never really cared much because i already have the important stuff so im just gonna get a whole lot of clothes gifts im guessing.  (FTM) lol.  but i have a hint if the day is gonna be but i feel like its so close to my due date.  im due dec 17 & the shower is i think Nov 26.  what if she pop out at the shower lol .