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Annoyed

Didn't know what category to put this in, but I've been TTC for almost 3 yrs with 3 MCs and 2 chemical pregnancies.

Anyways, I have this friend who is a career driven woman and claims there's no place or time for a baby right now, but her BF really wants one.

Long story short, she had her IUD removed and not using any type of protection. I get a text msg with a picture, asking me what I thought, whether she's pregnant or not (of course, the picture is freakin obvious that she is).

Don't get me wrong, I'm very happy about the news. What I'm feeling bitter about, is that she keeps texting me that she "wasn't" even trying and that "they" were so careful.

So after all the text msgs she sent, I decided to call her BS on that. What I hate most are people who "claim" they aren't trying at all, when it's clear they are. If you weren't trying, wouldn't you go to all lengths to make sure you don't get pregnant? My husband thinks she's now just rubbing it in our face.

Help! I don't want to feel like this towards her.

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