People saying "stop stressing!"

Is anyone else so sick of everyone saying "stop stressing." "If you think about it too much, it wont happen" "stop tracking and it will happen when you're ready."

I dont think some people understand how hard it really is to get pregnant. People have oops babies every day, but its really a small window when it can happen.

I understand if we just keep having unprotected sex, yes, eventually it will probably happen. But I'd rather it sooner than later. Im not stressing about it so much. Im more just anxious and excited.

My friends husband had a one night stand with an ex and she got pregnant. So hes constantly like "see! Its not hard! Just one night and boom!"

Why won't anyone just let me talk about it and be excited without telling me to stop thinking about it every time i even mention it...