am I wrong?

Ok so I'm nearly 19 weeks pregnant with my third baby, my partner's first. My bmi is 37 (I think) and I am fully aware that I need to be really careful how much weight I gain with this pregnancy. I have been loosely using fitness pal to just keep an eye on my diet. He is supportive and encourages/reminds me what the healthier choices are which I do appreciate. However I am really angry with him today as he asked how many calories was in my breakfast (rice pudding 194 cals) and he came out with "well mine was 119 cals!" I mean seriously?! I told him it's not a competition and also pointed out that he isn't pregnant and is trying to trim up. It was around 11:50am and I had had some crisps, but felt sick because I was hungry so I said to him that I might have to go get some lunch. He then said that I should wait an hour. I just though, really?! You're trying to tell a pregnant woman when to eat?? Lol does he have a death wish?? Is it just me being sensitive or is it a bit much??