LDR Neglect

There's nothing more heartbreaking than being in a ldr with someone says they love you but then they call you selfish for wanting to talk when you're both actually awake (we have a 6hr time difference) and then when you apologize and tell them that they can have their free time they say "no I don't want it I want to talk to you" but then they go out all day and ignore you. Like I don't care I'm all for having your own time but I just wish he felt like he could be open with me and just tell me he wants time with his friends instead of calling me selfish and then lying when he says he doesn't want the free time.. I put my heart and soul into making him happy and when I tell him how I'm feeling neglected because we don't talk at all anymore he says that he loves me and he's moving all the way to be with me and if that doesn't show that he loves me then he doesn't know what will and honestly I don't care if he moves here or not if he's still not going to be honest and give me some respect. I bend over backwards for him and I get nothing in return. I cry myself to sleep every night because I miss him and want him to be how he used to be.. he just doesn't get it. He says I don't communicate but when I do all he does is reply with "yeah I understand" that does nothing to help the situation. Sorry for ranting I just really needed to let it out...