just venting

Ok so my husband and I are in an argument via text. He's at work and I'm home. Anyway, last night he said that one of his coworkers (a guy) mentioned that one of their other coworkers (a girl) said she wanted to have a threesome with the two of them. He said it was funny to him and that's why he told me. Well, I did not find it funny. It actually pissed me off. So I tried to talk to him about it today and he got really upset that I was mad about it. He then goes on to tell me he finds me disgusting and that I'm a piece of shit when I don't have sex with him. I know he's angry but that's really hurtful. As someone who's always suffered from self-esteem issues, that really hurts. He always says hurtful things when he's angry. Usually I ignore it and but today, the things he said are just hard to ignore. 😢😢