I am currently 6 weeks pregnant with our rainbow baby. We have 8 other children total. I have decided not to tell anyone but my husband and our children because I hate how everyone seems to shame me every time I'm pregnant instead of congratulating us. We take very good care of our children and don't ask anyone for anything. So, I am very confused as to why everyone acts like it's so terrible every time I have a child. It has put me in a depression because I just want someone besides my husband to share the excitement with me. I know I shouldn't care what they think or feel but it does make me sad. Nobody ever comes to my baby showers or even the hospital. Does anyone else have a similar dilemma? A baby should be a time of celebration not feeling sad and lonely.