self conscious??!!!

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Any other ladies self conscious of their SO going umm, down town so to speak?! Lol. 4 wks PP and feel like my hoo ha has changed drastically! Waiting till 6 wks to get cleared, but am terrified of him going down there. Vag feels and smells different than before. When does it go back like before??!

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I looked once and it looks more...open. 🙈 I'm hoping over time it won't as much? Also I think the tear still bleeds occasionally. Is that normal? I'm 4 weeks PP.

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My stomach clinches as I read these comments! Lol!! 😬😬

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Totally understand! Mine looks the same, Doc said I'm all cleared but I just feel so yucky! I had postpartum discharge the entire 6 weeks! And just when I thought I was done my freaking period came a day later.. fml! I know douching is bad but man now would definitely be the best time for it.. Ugh

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I don't even want my doctor looking down there, no chance I'm even letting him touch me there nevermind go down there and I'm 7 weeks pp

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I'm 3 week pp and I haven't looked at all , no tears . But I'm scared it will still look different and I'm def not ready for SO to look either

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I don't have vaginal deliveries however mine looks normal again. It was awful pre delivery. It looked very swollen red and just awful. It's back to normal size now. Ladies with a tear it may just take a little longer.

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I am 4w pp and i feel exactly the same. I am really scare to even look at it just to make sure that everything is okay down there. Though i feel my lady parts is different everytime i touch to clean it, and it smells different too.

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At my 6 week pp ob appointment, the doc said I'm not fully healed where there stitches are.  I don't notice a difference smell and my inner labia feels smaller than pre-pregnancy....

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I looked and mine looks just like it did before (8weeks PP) and my husband hasn't said anything

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My bf looked at 4 weeks (I really wanted to know how my tear was healing) and he said everything he works with looked normal even though I still feel uncomfortable.

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