I'm so annoyed when people say this to me. Yes, this is my 4th baby, what is the big deal? I have three kids with my ex husband (whom my husband is adopting) but he doesn't have any biological children of his own. And, for some reason when I say that, that seems to justify me being pregnant with my 4th. Even if it wasn't his first biological child, why does it matter that it is my 4th? If we have the means to take care of our children and love them, really, what does it matter? Back in the day, it was unusual for a family to have less than six kids. Both my grandparents came from a family of 12. I love being pregnant with my husbands baby and I cannot wait to see him with our baby 😍