What is an ideal age to have your first kid ?? And whyyy??

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I picked 25-30 bc that's when I hope to have my shit together. I wanna get married mid twenties, and will have kids only if we have a nice home, income, my mental condition is being taken care of, have been away from my negative family, and I'm in my late twenties/early thirties. Otherwise I couldn't handle having kids. So basically I may never have kids 😏

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I said 25-30 because if I do end up having kids that's when I would like. People are more likely to be more responsible and settled, you get your fun and adventure out first in your younger years, typically people's lives are more together at that age.

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I said 25-30 because ideally by then you'd be done with your crazy, immature years, finished with schooling, have a stable job and living conditions, and overall are more prepared for having and caring for a child.

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I want to be 28. I just think it's a good balance between having time to get my life together and not being an older mother (which I dont want because my mother was). But everyone's different.

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I feel it all depends. I got married when I was 19 and was already tired of the partying. I know it's not the same for everyone but I mean now I'm 21 and we're settled happy and hoping for babies in the next few years. Maturity and having your shit together isn't really age, I think it depends on your lifestyle sometimes. But that's just me.

What is an ideal age to have your first kid ?? And whyyy??

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