my first time wasn't painful?my first time wasn't painful?

Jay (Jenna)
 My first time wasn't painful at all, I was terrified to have sex with my boyfriend who is the love of my life. My mother and every other woman in my life told me it hurt like hell for days and was a terrible thing. But me and my man were each other's first times. And it wasn't painful at all, now there was a point where he felt like he was "putting a marshmallow in a coin slot" but once we got it in and got going we both had an amazing first experience. (And maybe spent the rest of the night exploring instead of sleeping). Next morning there's no blood or anything on my sheets. Is this normal???