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I have been with my SO for 2 years and I am 3 days away from being 40 weeks pregnant with a little boy. Last night, my boyfriend and I were talking about our relationship and how time has gone by so fast; he admitted to me that I smother him with how clingy I am and I kind of annoy him. This hurt my feelings so much because I'm at this point in my pregnancy where I just want to be super affectionate and hugged, kissed, and pampered. I know he was only being honest and I'm glad for that, but I feel so sad knowing that I annoy the person I love the most. Can anyone relate or give me any advice that can cheer me up so that I don't feel like I'm overreacting? Thank you ❤

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My dear, when we're pregnant we Women sometimes do get a bit annoying hhhh. 
Maybe he didn't get a lot of sexual moments with you due to tiredness, big belly, etc, so it might be that he as well is getting a bit annoying. 
If he didn't bond with the child very much until now then jealousy can play a part on his side. 
You're in your last days of pregnancy, so you are getting tense as well, and don't forget that pregnancy makes us emotional, some women want to feel loved all the time and some just want to be left alone. It's not easy for a man sometimes to adept to the switching personality of a pregnant wife/girlfriend. 
He's been very honest, but he didn't tell you that he feels like he doesn't want to continue this relationship or anything like that, he just said what annoys him (which is very annoying to hear off course). 
Just take into account what annoys him and try to adept to that,… and once he'll see his baby he'll have forgotten what he told you. 
Wish you a healthy baby and easy delivery!

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I'm all about talking about relationships and being open, but that's completely uncalled for. It's call "tact" and maybe he should get some.

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He should definitely be more considerate of your feelings as you are pregnant, and being pregnant isn't easy what so ever. I'd just tell him exactly how you're feeling and hope he respects that. I do know with my man, he's loving but he's also overwhelmed with the fact we are now having a baby and has to support not just himself anymore but his family. Your man could just be a little overwhelmed with everything and needs his time and space to process everything.. Idk but 
Keep your head up though hun. You're not alone! 
❤️

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You're not overreacting... it's the hormones.  I'm 15 weeks along and I'm like that already.  You need to explain to him that you feel sad and just need affection and attention right now and explain to him it's the hormones....

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